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So here’s my game plan for this blog.

I’m going to shake things up a bit. I’m not going to only write about my life. Fact is, my current adult life is pretty boring. I have a few funny stories from work and life in general but it isn’t enough to base a blog off anymore.

Who knew growing up would be so boring? I’m still going to include all the juicy details like I did before, fact is I just don’t have a whole lot of juice to spill.

So to fill in the gaps I’m going to focus on some of my hobbies and things I enjoy: Baking, anything hair related (products mostly), and gaming. Mostly in the form of reviews. It’s nothing ground breaking of course, but maybe someone out there will take my opinions into consideration.

I`m also wanting to set some goals for myself to apply to my life and I fix my credit, settle into London and hopefully pick up some new hobbies. Usually I make these goals in my head and forget about them until months later.

Maybe I`ll have better luck writing about them on here, and holding myself accountable for them. I can write updates and such then..or something.

I know it sounds like a whole lot of filler, but at least this blog will get used for something other than me being negative all the time.

I’ve deleted all my old entries because this blog needs to go in a new direction.

I started it while transitioning from a long term relationship to being a single young woman. While I had fun and I don’t have any regrets about anything I did, or anything I wrote I am simply not that girl anymore.

This blog has also become less of a focus for me lately. I think it’s because most of the things I’ve been writing about lately have been negative. I really have nothing to be negative about, and I’d like to focus on the positive.

I don’t want to only write when things are bothering me. I also don’t want to write anything negative about anyone else. I don’t want to focus on my past, or Troy’s. It belongs in the past and we have a solid relationship, so I have absolutely nothing to worry about.

I think those are the things I need to focus on. I’m in an amazing relationship with an amazing man, I finally am at a job I love (even if my boss is the most unorganized person on the planet, but more on that later)  and I’m on the road to fixing my credit.

There will always be things I don’t agree with, or that make me uncomfortable but I am simply choosing not to focus on them.

I am sure there will be times when I need to write or vent about things, but I don’t want this blog to be post after post of negativity.

No more.